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Contradictory and Wandering ‘(Tehel)ling’ statements of Tehelka…


The Tehelka Magazine, the main supporter of the Talwars, has said in their article, ‘The House We Blew Down’, of Feb 2011, that Nupur Talwar had gone to put on the Router for Rajesh, in Aarushi’s room, at 11.00pm on murder night, when she saw her alive fo the last time, and went to sleep,and Rajesh said that he had locked the door of Aarushi’s door from Outside at 11.30/.35pm, when he went to sleep, but the key got stolen from his room, as he forgot to lock his own bedroom from Inside !

In an earlier article published by the Magazine, ‘Two Funerals and a Hundred blunders’, of June 2008, the same Tehelka has said that Nupur was sitting in Aarushi’s room till midnight, chatting with her,while Rajesh surfed the Internet and sent some emails from Aarushi’s computer.At midnight, Rajesh went to sleep, and Nupur went a few minutes later,forgetting to take out the key from the door lock,and take it to her room!

Which statement is the true one then ?

Whatever it may be, but it proves one thing – that either Rajesh alone,
or both Rajesh and Nupur, WERE awake and in Aarushi’s room Till Midnight, when Anmol Agarwal phoned on the Talwars’ Landline (which used to be in their bedroom) the second time too, and that Rajesh had NOT locked
and left her room as early as 11.30pm, as he told the Noida Police on
the first day of the murder !

There is one more point on which the statements of Rajesh and Nupur differ – Rajesh saying that Aarushi ate Kababs on that fateful night, and Nupur saying she had no dinner but only tea. However, the presence of semidigested food in Aarushi’s stomach at postmortem refutes Nupur’s claim that Aarushi had only tea. How could there be so much difference between the two versions of the couple who were together at the dining table with Aarushi at 9.50pm, when their driver saw Hemraj serving them.
Aarushi was more fond of fast food than home- cooked food so she used to bring something as supplement to dinner from outside every day, as Hemraj told Nupur that afternoon after lunch. So if Nupur said that Aarushi had not had her dinner that night, it may have meant the food cooked by Hemraj at home,but she might have eaten the kebabs brought from outside a little before or later, at 11.00pm.
It should investigated therefore, who might brought her the kebabs and when, or whether she had brought them herself.


It follows therefore, that according to the requirement of Section 106,
Viz. ‘Burden of Proving Fact especially within knowledge,’
of Indian Evidence Act,1872, as per the interpretation and illustrative example given by Amba Salelkar, Sr. Journalist, and Former Practising Criminal Lawyer,” Did the murder happen inside a car? If the accused
was proved to be in that car, he is supposed to explain – nay prove –
how the person died, if not by his hand”. Especially If the murder is committed in secrecy, inside the privacy of the house, the burden of leading the nature and amount of evidence of the crime is lesser and lighter upon the prosecution, and more upon the inmates of the house, than in other cases of circumstantial evidence.
In the Aarushi – Hemraj Murder Case too,
– Aarushi was murdered inside her bedroom, estimatedly between Midnight and 1.00am – Nupur and/or Rajesh Talwar were indisputably awake, and present in their house, and in Aarushi’s room at least upto 00.08 am, I.e. Immediately before the estimated period of the murder of Aarushi, and also of Hemraj, who was staying in their house;
-Therefore,Both Rajesh and Nupur Talwar stand to PROVE HOW THE TWO members of their house DIED, if not by their hands, INSIDE THEIR HOUSE,
on the SAME night, and around the SAME time, and in the SAME manner,
as it is too much of a COINCIDENCE, whatever may be the precipitating cause.
For no outsider could have come into the house, and killed the two inmates, particularly Aarushi, when her parents were in her room, till 00.08am, or a little beyond, I.e. 00.30 am!

It was suspected on the first day of the murder that Hemraj, the servant and the third adult inmate of the house, might have killed Aarushi, but the report of absence of his fingerprints or DNA in Aarushi’s room,
(which the Talwars also agree with) belies the Noida Police theory that Hemraj was caught having sex with Aarushi in her bed by Rajesh Talwar, which provoked Talwar to kill him, and Aarushi alongwith, by accident.
In the same way, no evidence of Hemraj’s Nepali friends, Krishna and Rajkumar, or Vijay Mandal, neighbour Tandon’s servant, having entered Aarushi’room and killed her, was elicited from the samples.

What intrigues me Is the report that Rajesh Talwar is said to have broken down and confessed to the crime, on being confronted with the information which Aarushi’s boyfriend Anmol Agarwal gave to the Noida Police during his interrogation on 22nd May 2008, and was arrested immediately thereafter on 23 rd May 2008. It is not known what exactly Anmol told the Police about Rajesh, but it is not understood why Rajesh had to confess to the crime If he was truly innocent, and why he is not saying a word against Anmol in spite of the damaging statement given by Anmol against him to the Police !

The Talwars are obsessed with and sticking to their claim of
Krishna and Rajkumar having come to meet Hemraj late that night,
and being the perpetrators of the double murder, in the course of a fight between them and Hemraj over some personal issue,and Aarushi having been killed because of having somehow become a witness of Hemraj’s murder.

Alternatively, some of their protagonists of the Talwars think that the real target was Rajesh Talwar, and the motive for Aarushi’s murder was revenge against Rajesh by killing his only child, because Rajesh had scolded Krishna and threatened to sack him from service for some mistake in his work in the Talwars’ clinic, in the presence of his patients. Hemraj was killed for intervening to save Aarushi from Krishna and Rajkumar(Durranis’ servant and Krishna’s friend.)

The Talwars are insisting on more detailed and serious investigation into
the involvement of these servants in the murders. At the same time,they insist that the servants made a nonsexual attack on their daughter, and that none of the servants,including Hemraj, assaulted Aarushi sexually, nor had a consensual sexual liaison with her.

So, they want the murderer to be charged only for murder, even if there is an indication that he might have abused Aarushi sexually, and to ascribe some other nonsexual motive to the murders; but they don’t understand that Justice cannot be delivered in dissociated compartments, I.e. Punishing a Rapist-cum- murderer only for murder, and keeping silent over his crime of rape, just because the girl is no longer alive, for it requires establishment of a motive for the crime, and in Aarushi’s case, the observations are of such a nature that a sexually related motive cannot be ruled out.

Therefore,the possibility of one of Aarushi’s boyfriends being the killer, ESP. Sankalp Arora, her ex- and ditched boyfriend, should not be neglected, as he was a suspect in the similar and mysterious Shobhit murder case, which was also related to a love triangle, and was phoning her repeatedly from his father’s cellphone since the last two days. He might have entered Talwar house at 00.30am or so, and done the kills (though the subsequent washing and cleaning of Aarushi’s body and bed, and deletion of photos from the new camera, which did not go missing, was probably done by the Talwars, while the disposal of the Mobiles of both victims and deletion of the entries in the phone memory along with removal of the SIM Card, as well as despatch of Hemraj’s phone to Punjab, was presumably done through their family friend Dr.RKSharma, of Mayur Vihar, as suspected by the CBI, as they did not want any proof of possible sexual activity to be exposed to the Police or Media!)

Aarushi’s Mobile at least could not have been taken by any outside killer including her boyfriends, as it fell silent after her last talk to Anmol from 9.10-9.30pm on the murder night, that is, 3/4 hours before her murder, indicating that Rajesh, on his return home at 9.30pm, must have taken it and Hemraj’s phone too (which was purchased in Rajesh’s name and given to Hemraj for use), after the last call Hemraj got at 10pm, and kept them in his or Nupur’s custody till the end. How could the killer get them, at about the time of the murders which took place around 00.00/00.30h, between 00.00-1am(unless the parents themselves gave them)?

It was reported that a mysterious scrapper was visiting Aarushi on her Orkut page since some time, giving her information about murder victims on Internet sites, It could be a sadistic prank of Sankalp aka Sanky, whom she had jilted for Anmol Agarwal, to disturb her mentally. So his role should be properly investigated, not cursorily, as has been done by the UP Police and CBI !

It is strange that the Talwars are not naming any of Aarushi’s boyfriends-
Sankalp Arora or Anmol Agarwal- as their suspects, though they were contacting her by phone till the last day of her life, and Anmol till the last minute. It may be either because they do not want the sexual angle to come into the picture of her murder case, which they insist, has no such background, or because they are afraid of them, being big people’s sons.


Understanding God and his Terms and Conditions for Protection – An Agnostic’s Quest.


Understanding GOD. Oh My God! I chose this subject with great enthusiasm, but at the very Outset, I can feel myself developing cold feet, for I am realising that I have swallowed a greater morsel than I can chew, taken on a bigger task than I can ever do justice to!
For basically I believe in and can visualise mentally, the All-pervasive formless spirit from which everything, the whole Universe originates, and which contains everything, like the ‘Viraat Swaroop’ ( Vast form) of which Krishna gave Arjuna a glimpse or साक्षात्कारः on the battle ground during the war of the Mahabharata. No incarnation of Vishnu has impressed me much,except Shri Krishna, my favorite deity (इष्ट देव),who is the ‘Poornavatar’ (complete incarnation or manifestation) of Vishnu, the Saviour, and my Spiritual Guide,Philosopher.
I have tried my best, for whch I may be excused.

Nevertheless, I have done quite a bit of thinking about God, the chief reason being, with due respect to the Almighty, that though I have no doubt about the Existence and Power of the Supreme Spirit [whom some religions regard as a Male Power, while some think it is a Female Power (Adimaya), but Most regard it as without any gender, yet potentially bisexual(अर्धनारीश्वर) like Shiva], I have never been able to fathom the mystery of the claim of the Believers, of God’s Love for all of his creation without discrimination and Protection to all when needed, on one hand, And, The difference of the fortunes and circumstances and justice meted out between different individuals seen in this World on the other.

For the Powerful and Cunning who rule the World are the beloveds while others live begging pitifully of the more privileged, as expressed in the song of children of an orphanage, from the old film of RK Productions, ‘ Boot Polish’ – and ‘Nastik’ on the disrupted lives of people at the time of India’s partition, starring the ‘LOIN’ Ajit And Nalini Jaywant, “Dekh Tere Sansar ki Haalat Kya ho gayi Bhagwan, Kitna Badal Gaya Insaan”!

From childhood, we have been taught and are conditioned into thinking Of God or The Lord as an Omnipresent, Omniscient and Omnipotent Almighty Force (Paramatma: Eternal Soul), Whose Love has no limit, and Who looks after His creatures as a shepherd tends his sheep – As per the Bible saying,” The Lord is Thy Shepherd; Thou shalt not fear.”


tion too
en for granted, so that sooner or later, we have to learn to take care of ourselves by developing our own defenses to the best of our capacity.

For, the state of power relations between all living beings on this earth teach you only one hard fact ‘The survival of the strongest and fittest’! And sadly, not all human beings or animals are equally capable of fending for themselves!
As a res
>to God,
y,” O Lord, Why hast thou forsaken me?” as though God is a supernatural, but ambivalent Dr.Jekyll and Mr. Hyde type of entity, combining good with negative powers.

Both these emotional states, of Faith that people have in Divine Protection, and the bitter Disillusion when their faith does not help them to sail smoothly through life and it’s difficulties, are the offshoot of our mental image of God as a Person-like spirit, whom we have cast in our own image, and who constantly keeps a watch over us at all times like a Diligent Parent or guardian.

Actually, I Think, God is more like a Giant ‘impersonal’ Computer-like Machine with an inbuilt Generator, Automatic’cut-off’ /restart switch which regulates and sets right any imbalance or antagonistic threat to the smooth working of the Universe, and a Mechanism of Disposal and Elimination of all Waste or Useless matter in the Universe. The Japanese Scientist, Michio Kaku, has given the same view in a detailed form recently.

Some people rationalize their ill luck as a consequence of their sins, either in this life or in some past life, and believe that the suffering is caused by our sins or Karma, and is our own doing, something that even God can’t overrule and change, or will not change, unless the sinners purge their sins by observing strict penance. This belief has some truth, except that it can be verified with reference to the deeds in the present life, but impossible to prove that it has any relevance to one’s past life (if there is any).

Likewise , this Entity called God(collection of all that is Good),does not change Nature’s Laws for individual interests or benefit, as that would upset the order of working of Nature. He is concerned with collective or universal Good, so our hope lies in gathering social support to make a regularly occurring crime or offense a collective problem of the world.
Still, t
pplied t
we mean those who are the Best among Human beings, forceful but at the same time good people; but in real practice, it is observed that the motto is, ‘Might is Right’ and justifies everything done by the mighty as right. That is, one has to be powerful to survive in this world, rather than good or noble.
Then, Is
he cost
ther individuals or the larger interest of Society or Humanity?

Mother Nature, what sort of children do you want? Strong and selfish Bullies Or noble, peace loving ones? And you pose to be the Mother of all your creation, loving everyone equally. Revered Mother, this is sheer ‘Shortchanging’ of your simple children who have implicit faith in your protection and justice – ‘Ullu Banaaving’!

It is said that God and Nature are primarily concerned with the establishment and maintenance of collective and Universal Good, but What exactly is Nature’s and God’s concept of Collective Good? Is the gender genocide regularly and unscrupulously practiced in India and other developing countries by Female Foeticide/Infanticide, and sexual exploitation of human females all over the the world,in any way contributory to Universal good? Is it not in the order of Natural justice and protection to curb these social evils, and protect the weaker sex especially of downtrodden communities from atrocities inflicted on them by some Males and male oriented society, or weak people in general from the tyranny of powerful brutes ?

It is known that in Some species of animals, like the crab,The female is larger and stronger than the male, and she can reject a male with whom she is not inclined. Why do human females (as also men of certain downtrodden races and tribes), with some exceptions (who also have usually reached where they are because of a strong man’s backing and guidance, eg. Indira Gandhi), not have equal strength for self defense ? Why are they so vulnerable that they succumb to the power of the strong?

Even the Goddess Durga, who is spoken of as the Symbol of Woman Power in India, is said to have become what she is is by having been ‘lent’ the powers of Brahma, Vishnu and Shiva, to prepare her for vanquishing the Demon Mahishasur! It means that a woman can be powerful only if she has the backing or delegation of powers from a man/men at least in the initial stage of her life! In that case, What are a Woman’s own independent or native powers?

More generally, what and where is Nature’s protection towards the weak, with the exception of the mother animal who zealously and tenderly rears and protects her young by her Maternal Instinct ? Or is it that, as in the Animal Kingdom, Nature has no use or need for the weak, so that if one cannot become strong enough to fight for one’s equal rights or status, one is doomed to live under the fear and domination or patronage. of the strong, for better or worse, to survive, or die as their prey!

At least in the case of animals, the females enjoy a certain amount of natural protection from males, by way of Nature’s control and regulation of male sexuality. Animal males do not attack biologically immature, or pregnant, or nursing females. Animal females do not menstruate round the year, but only in some seasons, when they welcome the advances of males. During other times males either spend their time hunting and conquering new,
as well&




Nature’s leniency towards powerful wrong doers and indifference towards their excesses towards the weak has a demoralizing effect on human beings in general, and does not raise the morale of Humankind in any way! Thus It is taken by many disillusioned people to mean that the main policy and aim of Nature is actually to build up a world of selfish, aggressive and scheming Men and women,who are expert at winning in the struggle for survival,as in the animal kingdom.

However this is also an exaggeration, and the other extreme of mistaken thinking, viz. cynicism, which too does not help anyone, because the Truth is something midway, and moderate or balanced.

For, one does see examples of hardcore and oppressiveTyrannical persons and rulers also paid back in their own coin in due course, and suffer a tragic and shameful end.
Even the
rthrown by his humiliated Brahmin Minister Chanakya, by fostering and grooming the Moor boy(Prince) Chandragupta Maurya to ascend the throne and build up his empire- the Magadh empire. STILL more, in view of the recent debacles and downfall that we have witnessed in our own lifetime, of World-feared Terrors like Benito Mussolini of Italy, who was an ally of Adolf Hitler of Germany in WW2, the unrepentant Idi Amin – the late Murderous, oustedPresident of Uganda,Osama Bin Laden, Saddam Hussain of Iraq,President Gaddaffi of Libya, and of Hosni Mubarak of Egypt, we have to make humble and apologetic acknowledgement with bowed heads of the oft heard fact that –
>How did
tyrants down directly from the Heavens. Their NEMESIS was brought about by the ‘COLLECTIVE AND ORGANISED RISING OF THE COMMON PEOPLE THEMSELVES AGAINST THE DESPOTS.’
War of Ashoka on
the king
pite the valiant resistance and fight put up by the people of Kalinga.
What hap
into Kalinga to meet the persons
who were
defeated foes coming humbly to greet and welcome him to be their King. BUT what met his eyes was a shocking sight he had never expected. Heaps of dead soldiers strewed his path, with pathetically mangled bodies, while those who were living,were so badly wounded that they were crying and cursing the Victor! This was the moment of reckoning that changed King Ashoka forever. He began to get convicted by his own conscience.”Oh God, what have I done! I have reduced a nation of fine and vibrant people to nothing but a big cremation ground.How can I rule over these corpses?” he cried, and was filled with deep remorse and penitence. Thus and thence started the transformation of theEmperor Ashoka, the unrivaled warrior and conqueror of a large part of India, except the Dravid countries (as the States of Tamil Nadu and Kerala were then collectively known), into the disciple of Lord Buddha, to take the oath of Ahimsa, that is Non Violence!
The Mora
t of reproach by own guilty conscience forever! As the lines of a Hindi song go, ” Jagse chahe bhagale koi, Manase Bhag Na Paaye, Tora Man Darpan Kehlaye – Bhale Boore Saare Karmonko, Dekhe aur Dikhaye”!

Therefore I have tried to develop for myself a realistic concept of God and Nature, which can help me to understand Life and the World better, and attain the maturity to appreciate and reconcile myself with the established order of Nature, and the ‘Divine Wisdom’!

(A) Nature of God as the Supreme,All-pervading Spirit :

My belief about God is that there is a Spirit which has no form or shape(निर्गूण ब्रह्म) or gender, Nor any sensory organs such as Eyes, Ears, or Mouth, like a Human Being, or any animal or bird, for the functions of Sight, Hearing, Speech, etc., but is a mass of creative and sensitive material, which is called ‘Metaplastic substance’ or ‘Metaplasm’ by some, having the capacity to undergo metamorphosis, viz. the potential to mould itself into any shape or gender required, with definite attributes (Saguna or Manifest Brahman like Rama, Krishna and Devi Parvati who was supposed to be a human being before She married Shiva but got elevated to the status of a goddess thereafter) for Hindus; Jesus Christ for Christians, etc. for working out the Divine purpose of regulating and co-ordinating all the processes maintaining this Universe – Creative, Protective /Regenerative and Destructive – and keeping it going. It is the SAME ‘ONE ABSTRACT SPIRIT’ (basic Metaphysical Supreme and Eternal Spirit/ Nirguna Brahman) which rules the World and Universe and the people of All Religions and Races, even though the followers of the different religions ascribe different names, forms and attributes to it, such as God Jehova of the Jews and Christians, Jesus Christ- the Prophet for Jews and Muslims, and The Son of God as well as the Messiah/Saviour for Christians(as also Mary, the Holy Virgin Mother of Christ for the Catholics), Allah-God of the Muslims, Ahura Mazda of Zoroastrians, and the ‘Trimurti’- Brahma(Creator), Vishnu(Preserver and Regulator), and Mahesh(Shiva, The Ultimate Destroyer, Disposer and Catabolic, as well as the God of fertility, alongwith their respective Divine Female Associates viz. Saraswati(Goddess of Knowledge), Lakshmi(Goddess of Wealth), and Shakti (Shiva’s Power), incarnated as Parvati, daughter of the Himalayas- of the Hindus! Besides the above mentioned deities, there is also a special place for Ganapati (The Leader or Lord of Shiv-Parvati’s Ganas/People), aka Gajanan(Elephant-headed), the Son said to have been created by Parvati from the flesh of the right side of Her trunk, and then beheaded by Shiva in a fit of anger for being arrogantly and adamantly blocked from entering His house by Ganesha who was seeing Shiva for the first time and didn’t recognise Him, but was given an elephant head in its place subsequently on Parvati’s lamentation and insistence on having her son back. (This is as per Hindu Mythology, for the elephantine head is really a Symbol of Wisdom).Shankara(Shiva) also granted Ganesha a boon that He would be the First Deity to be worshipped at the beginning of All auspicious religious ceremonies and occasions as ‘Prathamesh’, that is, ‘Inaugural Lord of Auspiciousness and Wisdom’. This may be a form of Animal worship too, for Hindus believe that all Animals and living beings including Plants and Trees are inhabited by Guardian Spirits and have a Soul.

I can give an example of how the Eternal, Supreme Spirit assumes any shape, any divine or human shape for sustaining the faith of devotees of all faiths,religions or sects by mentioning a scene from an old Bengali film on the life and philosophy of RamKrishna Paramhansa, by whose simple but genuine spirituality, even a brilliant rationalist like Swami Vivekananda was so impressed that he Immediately fell at his feet and made him his Guru!
However in Hi
d in ecstasy
even called h
‘, but Rama Krishna was so far above them spiritually,that he was not at all disturbed by what those shallow intellectuals thought of him.
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ing her to incarnate herself before his cousin who wanted to test whether she was a true deity,
For his sake,
gt;ged from the
f her idol in
live deity! Thereafter, just as the cousin was getting over his initial surprise, Another unexpected thing happened.The Mother Goddess slowly started melting as it were, and began to assume the form of Shri Vishnu, of whom the cousin was a devotee, just to make him realise that- ‘All the different forms of the Goddess or God are essentially and basically One,
and that itfe
cousin wa
moved and abs
bled by the lofty wisdom and spiritual power of Ramakrishna, that he tearfully fell to Ramakrishna’s feet, and acknowledged the superiority of his spirituality over his own conceited highbrow intellectualism!

(B)God assumes many forms to help us through life, e.g. a tree or a rock which may protect us from an accident in the nick of time, but one should not make the mistake of deifying the tree/stone and build a temple around it, for the same tree or rock is not a deity by itself, but only an instrument that comes to one’s rescue in a particular incident,and may become the major cause of a big accident at the same place some other time.

(C)More wonderful is the way Nature restores the normal working of the world gradually after major natural disasters like earthquakes, volcanoes, tsunamis, floods and famine..This means that God is not like a human being running to the rescue of each of his his creation for its protection, like a parent,but he has created the agency ofNature through whom he governs and regulates all aspects of life and the environment. And given every creature the means of selfdefense of one way or another- to fight, flight or fright(though I feel that that Nature has not given human females their due share of defenses! Definitely less than that given to animal females, and the maledominated patriarchal society makes it difficult for them to unite for mutual support and protection; but slowly, things are changing, especially in cities).

One more thing is that the world becomes liable to one calamity or the other, but the timely sustaining mechanisms of the Universe have protected us without our knowing it.

For example, NASA Scientists often declare that some big meteor or object in the Space was approaching the Earth at dangerously close quarters at some times, which would have caused extensive destruction on the Earth’s surface if it had collided with, or hit the earth, but that it luckily changed its direction at the last minute and went far away, saving the World from a major catastrophe. Does mankind really think that it’s some sort of manoeuvring on the part of human beings,viz. human intelligence,or the Luck of all the creatures on the earth that is saving life on earth from annihilation every Time, or a mere game of chance ‘Hit or Miss? NO ! It is the powerful repellant forces of this planet and Space which effectively prevent such deadly collisions! That way, on a larger scale, the Supreme Power IS constantly guarding its creation. (It is very rarely, only once in several million years that the defense mechanisms or forces of the earth fail to counter the onslaught of the approaching meteor or object in time for some reason, and a holocaust occurs,rendering many species extinct, as happened a few times ‘several ages ago’ ! )That is why, ever since the date 21.12.2012 has been broadcasted as the Day of Doom or the End of the World by the believers in the Mayan Calender, we hear of morbid prophesies being made for the future of this planet and life on it, year after year,and yet ,here we are, continuing our lives nonchalantly like Nobody’sBusiness To do us in!

So honestly, if something untoward happens earlier than the expected span of millions of years of survival still left in the account of the living beings on this earth, then we will have only ourselves to blame for it. For I am observing a steady and sinister decline in mankind’s concern for other human beings and creatures,as well as for the environment over the years; while on the Other hand animals, including those who were hitherto regarded as sworn enemies of each other, like cats and dogs, are found living together quite amicably in many places in the present age!

I hope Mankind’s greed and growing preference for material possessions and concrete jungles over Natural resources like farms and green environment and essential needs of life, like fresh air,water etc, which is leading to a destruction of Nature’s gifts and global warming, does not turn it into a revival of the fable character King Midas(मायदास) of Phrygia with golden touch,whose obsession with turning everything that he touched into gold, turned his darling daughter into a statue of gold as soon as he embraced her lovingly, much to his belated chagrin!

(D) About individual fortunes, Hindus believe that our sufferings do not come from God, or Satan.( In fact, there is no such single entity like Satan in the Hindu, Jain/Buddhist faiths, but the negative or destructive tendencies and powers in Human Nature which are termed’Asuri Shakti'(Demonic powers) probably linking them with the Asuras /Assyrians, the ‘anti Gods’ of yore, also known as ‘Daityas’. In fact, some people believe that the ‘God Spirit’ comprises both qualities, like Lord Krishna,who was born of Vasu Dev, and Devki, an Asura princess! It is believed that each of us has a small fragment or portion of the Divine, Omnipotent Spirit, as well as some negative (Asuri/Demonic) attitudes and tendencies within us. It is upto us to choose which part of our Nature we should foster and nurture, and which to discourage and reject.

We believe we suffer because of our own Karma or wrong deeds prompted and directed by the negative tendencies and strivings within our psyche, whose rewards and punishments are to be borne in this life, and carried over to next life.
So that’s the r
you to live as a martyr without any good cause, without Self respect or refrain from striving for/expecting your due and legitimate rights,but remember that others too have their rights, so don’t crush them.

Further, talking about the problem and future of weak, simple and harmless people being tortured and crushed by the strong, I remember the words of the renowned Author of Award winning Litrature(late)Prof.Shivram Karanth,with whom I had a discussion several years back on this subject, (of the torment of common people by those in power)that ” to attain a collective good, and win the support of the Divine power for a deserving mission, common people have to unite and make a collective effort to free themselves of victimization and tyranny of any sort, which we are not doing and just complaining”! So that is the solution to victimization of the common people by some people in power! United we rise, Divided we fall !
About The case
ficult, as th
uniting to lend
ther support, strength and mutual protection is thwarted in orthodox, backward communities, by the shackles placed on the individual freedom of women by the strongly male-oriented, male dominated patriarchal society; but slowly that wall too is giving way to the winds of change and the rise of a new generation of the self sufficient independent Woman, particularly in cities.

That is the Moral:
God does not so

;them, He leave
>y uniting agai
tering personal courage,in the case of physical handicaps [as in the example of the classical dancer Sudha Chandran, who lost her leg in an accident, but who surmounted the setback by resuming dancing with a Jaipur prosthetic leg and foot; Dr.Mary Verghese, who compensated for the loss of function of both her legs in a bus accident, by becoming an excellent Rehabilitative surgeon at the Leprosy Unit of the Christian MedIcal College Hospital, Vellore in Tamil Nadu(incidentally my Alma Mater too,because of which I have had the valuableopportunity to meet her personally),an account of whose lif’e’s work has been published vide the book,”Take My Hands”; the famous Helen Keller, etc ], alongwith mutual sympathy, cooperation and collective effort with others. Nevertheless, GOD DOES HELP THOSE WHO strive to HELP THEMSELVES, by honest and harmless means and meditate upon the Divine Power ,to solve and overcome their problems and vicissitudes.


But while fending for ourselves and our rights, we should remember to respect others’ rights. And welfare of others too!

(28)Crimes Against Women in India and Their Prevalence According To State, Class, Caste and Religion( Ref. My Note dt. 31.12.2012)



A survey needs to be carried out on Crimes Against Women, with emphasis
On their State wise, Classwise, Castewise prevalence, and their incidence in various religious groups.

Though Crimes Against Women are reported from all corners of
India, the incidence in the Northern States is more than in the South.

The women of all religions become victims of crimes, but particularly Muslim women,due to medieval rules of their religion and society.

The scourge of Female Foeticide and Infanticide is more in the Upper Castes of India, more so among the people of Middle Economic Class, where girls are regarded as an economic burden, and a social liability,due to the proneness of girls to rape.

Among the Poor people of Lower castes,on the other hand,girls are not killed simply on account of their gender, as they are seen as means of income by Child Labour, and Immoral Traffic, but get killed as a result of financial and sexual exploitation, by their irresponsible, selfish and alcoholic male relatives, and for charges of infidelity.